How to live your life exactly you wanted to ? So if you doing a job and gives you satisfaction and you need more and more, the PURPOSE of your life is to get rich, independent and be grateful for everything.
If we do something good and people come and praise you or applause does that mean you have completed your PURPOSE. So the answer is NO.
Is someone is applauding you it means that their choice and their preferences you met but we need to be emotionally detach and work on the purpose and long term rather than just be focus on the short term.
To be successful STOP taking VALIDATION from others, use your brain do the analysis fail and learn simple as that. You own your life so your decisions. Remember one thing if people is praising you it simply means that what they wanted to see you have done, so double check what you got applause for does that aligned with your goal or ambition ?
Do those things which makes you happy, rather than taking validation from others.
What if people criticizes you all the time even you are doing everything you can to make the other person happy. If you are in a business, relation or any other way. If you feel like you are being trapped and you could not do anything. Just take a breath and make a decision, how long you will feel reluctant and vanish your body.
Sometimes we have to make hard decision to make ourselves happy, so just do it without even a single thought.
Just remember if you do that there would be hundreds of people out there who will still criticize you so what you did. They would always judge you what you do , so you just need to focus on your goal, purpose and ambition of your life.
If we are in a social media STOP thinking what people would say or think about you , just do your work silently day by day without seeing the criticism, with time you would you had already achieved your goal and purpose which you set up couple of years ago.
People would come and go from your life, the only thing which would remain with you is your THOUGHTS, so just be positive, think positive and do positive and rest keep on god.
Signing off!
Harneet K
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