I remember when i used to wear my loose clothes or pajamas , night suits while working from home. I got the feedback from someone that if I want to succeed in my life and I want others to respect than I have to change my clothing sense/appearance.
I was stuck, i tried to wear formal dresses at home, i was wrong there. When ever i used to wear them i was not comfortable, was not breathing properly and then i came back to my loose clothes.
But this time with some minor changes, i stopped wearing night suits in the day and replaced my wardrobe with some fitted comfortable cotton T-shirts, cotton lowers and yes i had the confidence now and the most important thing is i was happy from inside.
Everytime taking approval from someone is wrong, we could take advice but do whatever we really want. We own our life so are we decisions.
We should never hold back instead take a breath and take small steps everything. Don’t run for things, if you run -things will go far from you, so just take small steps and see how it works.
Always speak the truth, and don’t feel afraid that you be judged. That is fine you have to do what makes you happy rather what people judges for you.
We all have dreams in our life but achieving them is our priority and it’s on our top list. So if we want to succeed so we have to come out of our comfortable zone and work on our growth.
I remember i had some friends in my life and i have my dream to be the person that i wanted but there was one hindrance that is our friendship. The reason being whenever i want to do something my friends used to come say something and i was behind my goal. So one day i realized that if i really have to do something i have to sacrifice my comfortable zone and work towards my goals, the life that i want to build from scratch.
So yes if you have to succeed you have to do some sacrifice to go to the ladder. We always get what we are worth for. Never forget to work hard on small steps and see how life your turns.
If we have that thought and we feel we wanted to achieve but everytime you are procrastinating – stop doing that. Start seeing your bank statements, your friend circle, your financial status and mark one thing that is not aligned with your goal. Replace one thing with the goal you wanted to achieve and see how it goes.
So sometimes sitting, relaxing and burden feel gives you a great idea to restart your life.
Signing off !
Harneet K
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