1. Choose your words wisely.

What happens when someone come and start disrespecting you ? what would we do ? Do we shout back?
If you want someone to respect you then you have to be confidence while talking.
Stop these words when you say ex – possibly, I might be dumb to say this, I think, I kind of , I sort of and so on.
If you want to say something just shoot rather than saying ‘ I think ‘and see how people will start taking you seriously.

1. Body first mind second

Whenever you walk in the room and you have a meeting, interview or anything may be a meet up, just walk with confidence. Dress properly, do not slouch and speak
with confidence.
When you are going in a meeting , start imagining yourself how your mannerism would be, at what time you would smile, your gestures of fingers and whole body.
Just remember this thing – if you are nervous, you look nervous.
You have to control over your actions.

1. Power of silence

What happens when people would come and say something bad about you, your looks, your dressing sense or your body just before the meeting? How would you
handle that?
This happens to me you know the truth we think like we all are alike. If you have a good soul, positive vibe does that mean the other person would have that too?
Answer is nope, just think like that if someone is giving you a negative vibe may be where you are they also wanted to be there and they could not for some reason.
So what they do is they would try to degrade you, humiliate in front of other so you would not have confidence to speak.
And this is the truth when you grow in your life people would come and say bad things about you, you just must keep silence and ignore. Do not react once you start
reacting, they will WIN. You don’t want that right?
ACTION SPEAKS BETTER THAN WORDS

If we are quite it does not mean we don’t have anything to say, it’s just they don’t matter in our life where we have to to explain or give excuses to them.
We don’t have to be uncomfortable while silence its just speak only when it is required.

1. Don’t fold under pressure

So here is the thing we sometimes feel everything is in pressure.
People would come and they would challenge you in different perspectives and what we do in reply is just challenge them back isn’t?
But here we are wrong, people sometimes feel jealous and they instigate you not to be confident and put your best forward.
Always listens to your heart and do what you feel like doing rather than feeling under pressure.
We have to hold our position so that people can take us seriously and this is how people will respect you.

1. Own your opening

Your initial impression is everything.
When ever we talk to someone just make sure you are open and use the right words when it is required.
Either you are making a video, writing a blog or even you are giving a presentation – so just first 10 seconds will decide whether people will enjoy or might will leave the
post.
Okay so now let’s look if you are in a meeting and how you show yourselves to being confidence ?
Would you speak louder than others? Would you overstep in the conversations ?
Would you be rigid and not listen to others? Never admit you are wrong ?

Wrong ! So the best speakers are the people who listens to other, speak less and only speak when it is required and the most important this is they ask questions as much
as they can.

Signing off !

Harneet K